Posted by Sage, January 5, 2019.
In order to play and win at any game, you have to first understand the rules.
If you’ve never learned how to play a game of darts, then throwing darts at the center of the dartboard might seem to be the most logical thing to do. But the player with precision and an understanding of the game will shoot for the triple twenty.
It’s the same idea with women. If you don’t know what your target is, or what you’re aiming for, then you’ll just end up being one of those guys trying to “get lucky.”
If you’ve never had success with women and dating, then you’re probably doing something wrong. And if you keep doing the same things that haven’t worked for you in the past, then you will continue to get the same results.
The only way to lose consistently is to never change your strategy.
A lot of friends I’ve met over the years made no progress in the attraction game simply because of their notion that “This is not the way it should be with women.” They wish women were different. They wish their situation were different. So they whine and complain and become victims, but they don’t actually make the necessary changes in their lives to achieve their desired results.
Shift your attention from “what SHOULD work” to “what REALLY works.”
When you live in the real world, and when you’re in touch with the truth, you will be far more effective. Massive success is possible only when you see the truth and accept it as it is. But on the flipside, if you don’t accept the rules and the way things are, then you’ll be fighting against your own personal victories.
Men who struggle at getting female attention are almost always harboring false beliefs about women and dating. These beliefs have been learned one way or another and have been mentally accepted as truth. The longer they’ve held on to their false belief system, the harder it is to change.
Here are the facts: Attraction and seduction are skills. Skills can be learned, practiced, and improved over time. If there’s one thing I’m clear on it’s this: getting desirable women has nothing to do with luck.
Be courageous enough to accept this truth. Because if you’re dedicated improving your dating skills, then you can expect REAL results in proportion to the effort you put into it.