SummarySpeak To Spark Arousal is a conversation course on how to get more dates through playful and flirty conversation. What makes it different from other conversation products is that it’s taught from a female perspective. Jessica J, the creator of the product, has worked as a marriage counselor and has appeared on Playboy Radio. Not only does she teach conversation, but you’ll learn the correct mindset you need in any conversation. This entry level product is innovative, and is presented without any of the BS that you often hear from other well-intentioned female experts. You’ll learn how to communicate in a way that’s true to your personality without having to memorize scripts or routines.
Total Score 87 / 100
- Overall Presentation 8 / 10
- Effectiveness 18 / 20
- Practicability 17 / 20
- Innovativeness 8 / 20
- Value For Money 18 / 20
- Other Score 8 / 10
- Expert: Jessica J.
- Level: Beginner, Intermediate
- Format: Video (Download), Audio (Download), E-Book
- Price: $49.95
- Where To Buy: speaktosparkarousal.com
- Guarantee: 60-day return policy
Who This Product Is For
If you want to know what to say when you talk to women, then Speak To Spark Arousal will get you on the right track. More than just knowing what to say, you’ll also learn how to think as the man. This product is best suited for the beginner or intermediate students, but any guy who lacks confidence around women will benefit from this course.
- Speak To Spark Arousal (video, audio, ebook)
- Speak To Spark Arousal Templates
- Speak To Spark Arousal Exercises
- Natural Conversation Starters (bonus #1)
- Friendzone Escape Hatch (bonus #2)
- What To Say Next (bonus #3)
Speak To Spark Arousal consists of a number of videos, audios, written material, as well as exercises for you to practice at home. You can access the videos in the members section, or download the audio version of the videos in case you want to listen on your smart phone.
I’ve studied many dating advice products. Some of them are good, some of them are not so good. Speak To Spark Arousal, I’m glad to report, is one of the better products. Jessica J is honest and straightforward, and she’s somebody on your side. In other words, she really cares about helping you get results. Female experts have a tendency to give advice that’s in the best interest for the woman. Sometimes what they say is actually counterproductive for men. I usually don’t advise getting dating advice from women, but in the case of Speak To Spark Arousal, I will make an exception.
It’s interesting to hear her perspective on how it feels to be communicating with the “average guy.” She gives examples of how a guy was able to successful meet her and get her number in less than a minute. She also gives you examples of how it feels when guys are incongruent to their true personality. This was a big takeaway for me.
When a man says something that doesn’t fit with the kind of guy he is, it conveys all the wrong things to a woman. If you approach a woman and she senses that you’re pretending to be somebody he’s not, then you’ve already lost her. Or how about the guy who just keeps asking her questions, as if it were a job interview. There are other good examples of how guys ruin their chances with women–all through conversation. After studying this product, you will never make these same mistakes again.
Another takeaway was the importance of being the man. So many guys have become permission-seeking. The seduction community has mislead guys into trying too hard to impress the girl. Instead of being yourself, they try to be somebody they’re not in the hope of attracting the girl. This is the wrong way to go about it since. It’s insincere. And it’s unattractive.
The crux of the program are the conversation strategies. Jessica emphasizes that it’s important to the learn the techniques in the right order. You’ll learn how about being present, being playful, and being flirty. Each of these categories is further broken down into sub-sections including written exercises so that you’re prepared for anything the girl happens to throw your way.
But it’s not just about what to say. It’s also about how you think as the man. Jessica really hit the nail on the head with her advice. It’s all about you putting yourself first. What often happens is that the guy will try to put the girl first, thinking that he’s winning bonus points by being a “nice guy.” But this is the wrong approach. You have to put yourself first. Women want you to take the lead. They don’t want to agree with everything they say. They want you to be willing to walk away from the conversation.
In addition to the main program, there are 3 bonuses. The first is ‘Natural Conversation Starters’ which gives you pointers on how to initiate the conversation. ‘Friendzone Escape Hatch’ shows you how to change your conversation style so that your friend starts seeing you as a potential lover. Finally, the ‘What To Say Next’ audio comes with a PDF chart on how to effortlessly keep the conversation flowing naturally. All these bonuses add real value and are congruent with the techniques of the core program.
Speak To Spark Arousal is a solid program for the beginner student. Jessica J has done fantastic work with this program and it avoids much of the pickup artistry mindset. What you end up with is advice that is effective and relatively easy to implement. If you want to become more attractive by becoming the guy that women love to talk to, without falling into the friend zone, then you need this program.